When he came over he seemed a little off to me. The next day I got a text message from him saying he needed to get the laptops charger so I told him he could pick it up tomorrow. He helped me search for it and once found it he left. When my father in law came to pick up her clothes he also asked for her laptop which I had no idea where it was.
My wife's mother left and was never heard from again. He and his wife divorced when my wife was a child because of it. She told me her father would come by to pick her clothes up and I agreed. She disagreed because we don't live in the best neighborhood and it's likely her stuff could get stolen. She texted me one day saying she needed to come by the house to get her clothes and I finally responded and told her I would leave her stuff outside and she could come pick it up so I wouldn't have to see her. My wife would try to contact me and try to work things out but I refused to answer. Then it happened again and I asked her to leave our home and she temporarily moved back in with her father. My wife cheated on me a little after a year of marriage but we got through it. My wife and I married in the spring of 2010 and we have a great marriage on the surface, however that is not the case.